Boundaries

Artwork Interpretation
This illustration shows two human figures separated by a glowing, invisible boundary. One figure holds up a hand calmly, while the other stands just outside the light. The image reflects emotional boundaries in therapy—clear, respectful limits that protect individual well-being while preserving connection. The use of warmth and soft contrast visually communicates balance, safety, and emotional clarity.
Core Meaning
Boundaries in psychotherapy refer to the internal and external limits that define a person's space—emotionally, physically, and relationally. Healthy boundaries promote self-respect, emotional regulation, and healthy communication. They help prevent burnout, over-identification, and relational enmeshment.
Concept Origins
Boundary work emerged from family systems therapy, trauma-informed care, and assertiveness training. Salvador Minuchin emphasized structural boundaries in family systems, while Pia Mellody and recovery literature advanced boundary theory in addiction and codependency work. Today, boundaries are central in relational, somatic, and integrative therapies.
Therapeutic Purpose
Therapists use boundary-based interventions to help clients clarify their sense of self, maintain healthy relationships, and prevent emotional fusion. Boundary awareness supports differentiation, improves conflict resolution, and strengthens emotional resilience in both individual and relational therapy settings.
Common Interventions
- Personal boundary mapping and journaling
- Assertive communication and role-play
- Family sculpting to visualize enmeshment or rigidity
- Creating relational agreements and self-care plans
Ideal Client Use
Boundary work is particularly beneficial for clients dealing with people-pleasing behaviors, codependency, burnout, or family enmeshment. It also helps those recovering from trauma or learning to assert emotional and physical space in close relationships.
Cultural Considerations
In multicultural counseling, it’s important to recognize that the definition of boundaries can vary. In collectivist cultures, interdependence may be viewed as healthy rather than codependent. Therapists should explore how cultural norms shape ideas about privacy, obligation, and personal space.