Denier

Artwork Interpretation
In this evocative visual, one figure holds out a glowing orb—representing truth, vulnerability, or emotional reality—while another figure crouches behind a coffin-shaped shield. The shield acts not just as protection, but as a container for unresolved grief or hidden trauma. The figure behind it holds their head in emotional pain or refusal. This image captures the core of denial: a defense that disconnects the individual from overwhelming truth or feelings they’re not yet ready to face.
Defense Pattern
Denial as a psychological defense mechanism shows up when a client minimizes, avoids, or outright rejects distressing truths. Common phrases might include “It wasn’t that bad” or “I honestly don’t remember.” This pattern often emerges in the aftermath of trauma, where full emotional acknowledgment would threaten psychological safety. While denial may initially serve a protective function, over time it can block healing, emotional growth, and relational intimacy.
Protective Belief
“If I don’t let it in, I don’t have to feel it.”
Antidotes
- Parts Work to meet the protector with compassion
- Somatic Tracking to sense subtle body responses to repressed material
- Motivational Interviewing to explore ambivalence and readiness for change
- Timeline Reconstruction to gently re-integrate dissociated memory or emotion
Cultural Considerations
In some cultural or familial systems, denial functions as a normalized or even expected coping strategy. This is especially true in environments shaped by intergenerational trauma, chronic stress, or cultural silence around mental health. Acknowledging painful truths may be associated with shame, exile, or threat. Therapists should approach denial with cultural humility, understanding it as a survival mechanism—one that protected the client in the past and now invites gentle, respectful exploration.